QUEENS AND KINGS, you ever feel like the world has just grabbed you and now you can’t even think for yourself because everything is happening so fast? Work has gotten busy, your relationships has required more time, you now have children and you no longer have time to do the things you use to do. I completely get it! But one thing you HAVE to remember is you MUST take time for yourself to regroup and get your thoughts together. No traveling does not mean you have to travel around the world, it’s simply getting into your car and traveling somewhere near or far SOLO. Here are 5 Facts on why you should travel solo at least once a month!
1. HAVING TIME TO FOCUS!
Even if it’s just going to a museum, a coffee shop, or even a park! Whether it’s a book, a knitting project, or even thinking about your goals, taking the time to focus on the things you enjoy and yourself is a must to a happy life! Everyone knows once you lose focus on one thing, if you don’t come back to it you will forget it! Taking your monthly solo trip will prevent you from losing focus on your plans.
2. DO THE THINGS YOU WANT TO DO!
Ever go somewhere with friends and you say an idea but the group doesn’t want to do that or they complain if they have to? Why put yourself through that when you can go somewhere and enjoy it ON YOUR OWN! For example, if you’re into Zumba and wanted to go to a class, you ask your friends and they say no, half of you will not even go. But what if you decided to just get up and go on your own? I bet you would enjoy it and appreciate the fact that you did what you wanted to do without anyone complaining! Be independent, see the world, and stop letting others hold you back!
3. RELAX FROM LIFE.
Listen, trips don’t have to be to a different country or a different state, travel to your local spa, movie theatre, nail shop, or better yet to your local winery! Heck take a day trip to the beach or if your winding down is dancing all night long in a club then by all means turrrnnuuppppppp! Whatever may be your way of relaxing, do it without anyone telling you it’s time to go home or they’re ready to go home, or better yet, not having any restrictions at all.
4. NOT HAVING TO PLEASE ANYONE!
People, we simply CANNOT please everyone and that’s okay! Yes we try over and over and over again but somehow we always tend to slip up. Taking a solo trip is your time to not care about slipping up, not caring about anyone’s issues or being that friend counselor, not caring about what is going on in everyone’s life and comparing yours to theirs, and not having to pretend that your life is perfect. This is about you appreciating YOU! Turn your phone off, grab that journal and simply focus on yourself!
Most of all,
5. IT MAKES YOU STRONGER!
Sometimes we just need a break from life to appreciate ourselves and how far we’ve come! Ladies and Gentlemen, we are blessed to be here so why not take time to appreciate that? Don’t let life break you down when self love will build you up! This trip is more than just going out and spending money, it’s about regaining your focus, setting your goals, and bringing new ideas to your life! It’s so easy to get in a repetition in life when you see the same things and people every day. This trip will give you the chance to think of new ideas, new beginnings, and a new view on life! Of course it will come with time but what better way to sell to your spouse or yourself that every month you need time to become a better you? 😜😉
Please share any solo travel dates you have accomplished thus far below.Hope you enjoy.
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